forgiveness is what every human cannot cope with. limited with hatred, anger or sadness. hidding behind the walls of pride and ego. for me, i can’t seperate myself with the line of stupidity. when people get hurt or double crossed by someone else, they should’ve learn right? forgiven not forgotten is what people always say. is an option when you see it from your side. i couldn’t do that, not tonite. i listen to the sweet night calmness God has given me in this blessed Sunday. open the box full of our pictures we took, presents we trade and words we wrote stating our emotional values. i cannot feel them anymore. not to you. the fact is i’m listening to Andien - Detik Tak Bertepi right now in my room, the words is quite awakening. what is feeling? i have developed myself with so much pain i’m going through from various relationship i had over the years. 
sometimes i forgot what’s the purpose of my journey. you are the last piece of hope i have in the bright sunshine. but what you did was really a wake up call. that we are not in a dream world. where love meets emotion and everything is paradise. no. life is facts and multiple choices. those choices aren’t easy and simple.i learn something from my last relationship. i’m not a psychotic seeking for revenge, i don’t keep hate, i’m sad but back in action again, i’m happy in my state of numbness. reason after reason and friends along the way give me so many answers, encouregement and spirit to move on. one by one my leaves fall, one by one my tales are told. what i need is a real goodbye. i hope you’re happy with you’re life. I release all these disappointment From my mental physical spiritual and emotional body Cause I know that spirit guides me And love lives inside me That’s why I today I take life as it comes…
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Aug
06
you can start by forgiving and loving yourself more bec. you cannot give what you do not have.youre right,life is an option,so better choose the right one,forgive foget and submt yourself to god who knws,loves and understand what your going through.god loves you.
god is just and faithful that he will forgive and forget all your inniquities. 1 jonh:1-9
I appreciate this thought that i have read today. This may guide me today & tomorrow. I’m so thankful of reading & absorbing this fruitful thoughts of forgiveness. How i wish that i may apply this not just today but also tomorrow… God Bless us!!!!!
just start ur day w/ smile in ur face and always be maintane ur positive thinker attetude and also be agood person to others specialy to ur family and to ur friends because family and friends it is the most one tressure in life
cute
thank u all
Sumhow it wil help me wd dis a piece of msgs.. Perhaps it’s eazy to say dan do ds thing like forgiving as we r only human cannot 4get it especially if we r hurt by ppol to hum we trust..Perhaps il try to learn on how to 4give but time cn heal a wound dat once he had made, because it’s a process of accepting before forgetting…And i rather be true to myself dan forcing myself to forgive dat person den suddenly at d back of my mind still i can8 4get it…
Forgiving sum1 that has caused u pain is too hard, and the action that comes after forgiving is forgetting..damn is painful too..but then life must go on wwwwwwhat has happened is already done, we cannot condone it, face the reality that we`re just humans we are imposed to do mistakes.. just keep in mind that whenever we were being disappointed, in pain, despair, lonely…there still the light that God have prepared..it only take a minute to figure that Jesus is with us, just leave it to Him completely, submit urself to Him..then u`ll realize it pays to be good..to forgive…
I LOVED HATRED!!! After alota people ruined my trust on them! I’ve been betrayed by a close friend,dumped by my own relative in exchange of something DOUGHous!!..messed up my reputation out of bribery!!..name it..i had it!!
B’COZ of it i hated evrybody-including those who deserve to be treated nicely.I laylow spiritually! I sweard not to trust again!!! I rejected people who came to me for friendship.I learned how to curse!! I hated God!!! I condemned pastors! I had a hard time believing what other says! How can i forgive if i can’t forget?! And i will never,ever forget!But you know what?! TIME HEALS WOUNDS!! Nobody can force you to forgive and maybe you’ll never learn to forget but somehow,some time..you’ll find it in your heart that you’ve actually forgiven! You’ll be in the stage of indenial but TAKE IT FROM ME..it will come to you.You’ll learn to LIVE AGAIN! It’s not saught,anyway..it just comes..so take your time..GO ON AND HATE..you’ll learn to love again..Joyce is here,hehe..
remember this god’always love us even so many problem came into our life.God always there
I enjoy reading your post today teaches enlightenment on forgiveness and humility in spirit. Indeed, we have a great and ever-forgiving God who is our greatest example.
how utterly buddhismic!if such a term exist.a shower of joy for you cos youve reach the epitome of maslows needs.im an imperical thinker so some deduction dont add up.just be proud youre an empathic human being and not merely an animal who breathes.au revior
i can relate to it. i once hated a person so much but as time went by it just slowly disappeared. true it is that time heals the pain but i did not forget about it. it is still in me (the thing that cause me pain)but i am sure in my self that i’ve forgiven that person.only, i love the person so much that until now i still feel great pain of what he did to me.i cant help it.i feel so broken everytime i think of him but im so sure that i’ve already forgive him.
ask and you shall recieve; seek and you shall find; knock and the door will be open;
Hey! you have touched someone’s heart here . . .
U do the rite thing, bro
“they should’ve learn !”
hi po…
dont love too much, think too much and expect too much;coz everything cant be too much. dont blind yourself from things that existed, coz theyre just purposes. but you are the reason. now its up to you to name that reason. whatever happen, just let it happen. hurt is just hurt. you can never defy the future. but just listen not hearin.
well,all i can say its a nice and inspirational message but always put in ur mind its not the end of the world,baby…i had the same thing happened but time passed by u’ll never realize slowly u’ll forget it all,hatred and everything….so take it easy and have a good time with friends,,,forget all this demons who did it and time will come theyll realize the things theyve done..enjoy life!!!its mehhhhh
Cool… I thought I was alone in thinking bout life…. All the people that I know dont care bout life… I mean like really dont care bout life… They just go wit the flow… The dont even plan for their future… For me life is a challange that all of us will get through… Sometimes its good and sometimes its sucks… Same as love… We need to plan our life so that we have a target to achive… Imagine a train without a track… What will happened to the train??? So basically we just plan and god decide… If God say yes, then our life will go with our plan… But If God says no, then we just live our life till the end… Cause there will be another life after death… The judgement day… If you want to know the meaning of life… Don’t even think about finding the meaning of life because we will not know the meaning of life until we achive death… All the talks about the meaning of life, all of that is bull shit… Anyway Forgiveness is the key of a successful and a happy life… So…. Think about it…
All events happen by its own purpose, might good or bad but just took what it means.. just the reason everyone is inperfect…i’ve got same experience recently but i just hold on the word od God since He did not promise days without pain, laughter without sorrow, sun without rain- but He did promise strenght for the day, comfort for the tears and light for the way.. and i think thats enough for us to be thankful for…g()()dlUck!!!
hey yah! its really touching you know… im glad im not alone feeling the that feeling you feel.. God always love us unconditionally. always bear that in your heart.. Bless You.
feel the pain but don’t get bitter…life is short, move on no matter how hurt you are!
nice…..GOD BLESS ALL!!!
It’s great, that you shared your darkest emotions.
Now, it’s time to find your own happiness
It’s yo’ boy, drop me a line sometimes…
Peace Out
Yeah,i agree with what you have written.There is always time for forgiveness,a time when you want to let go of that feeling so you can set your spirit free.It’s very good to live in this world without hatred or any sullen feeling to anyone.God also forgive and so do people…,it’s always start from YOU…,from the deepest part of your heart.
thats life!thats love!u have voiced it out so emotionally that i do admire u for facing the fact that not all things meant to be as u would want it! forgive @forget!then MOVE ON!life can only be sum up into 3 words IT GOES ON!it would only be hard from the start but as u’ll see soon things would smoothly back to normal just go on with the flow of ur feelings!all wound heals as time goes by!i know GOD has another plan for u!and surely it would be better and something that u deserve!all the best!@gudluck!muaaah!
you’re absolutely right.everything happens for a reason and there’s time for everything.i do admire you for sharing ur thoughts on forgiveness.u inspired me.good luck and god bless!
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i really like the way you write. brilliant!
forgiveness is not forgeting,people who want to forget all that was done to them will find they cannot do it, dont put off forgiving those who have hurt u,hoping that pain will one day go away.once you choose 2 forgive someonce,then christ can come and begin to heal you of your hurts.But the healing cnnot begin until you first forgive.FORGIVENESS IS A CHOICE,A DECISION OF YOUR WILL!
forgiveness is reconciliation that gives happiness to our hearts.
i am very busy with my work, but this doesn’t excuse me from reading your beautiful messages. i also want to unveil what’s inside of me. i was once hurt, and the pain is still here. i want to forget the person who caused me this much pain, but how can i, for i see her everyday, everyhour. i know it is not my mistake or hers alone, it’s ours. we had a serious misunderstanding. i gave way. i apologized and asked for forgiveness. but she didn’t accept it. i did it not just once but a couple of times. but then —still –i failed. do you have an idea of how painful it is? of having an enemy who onced been your special friend? i don’t think i feel the emptiness, but i do. i really do. i want to bring everything back. but the harm is done. and no one can bring broken pieces whole again. i don’t understand now what’s forgiveness really is. i don’t know now what does it mean. i don’t want to keep the pain in me, for as long as i’m keeping the pain, i’m keeping anger and hatred.
u really touched my heart with this inspirational message, thank you so much, it brigtens my day and lightens my heavy heart. ryt now, im in deep pain! He came just to ruin my life when i hv done nothing wrong with him, only trust & love him! He is the biggest mistake I’ve ever done to my life!
its really touching and inspiring also,i know its really hard the pain that your going throught rigth now but that is life….pain…..love…war…hatred…thanks again for your beatiful msg..
It’s so great think..life must go on n U must strong enough for Ur future. Be better…
Happines is when what u think, what u say n what u do are in harmony, so u might not always get what u want immediately, but u might find other choices that will cheer u up someday. I’m sure u can.
“THE EARLIER HEARTACHES COME, THE SOONER TO OVERCOME THEM.”
Life is so movable and unjustable as well, so we should not be stagnant. We must learn in every step we take; in every stumbling we encounter along the way. If we cannot avoid completely, at least try our best not to commit the same mistakes over and over again.
These passages may help all of us - the commentators, me, and the writer of this blog –
“Yet it would be your duty to bear it, if you could not avoid it:
it is weak and silly to say you CANNOT BEAR what it is your fate to
be required to bear.”
“It is not violence that best overcomes hate–nor vengeance that
most certainly heals injury.”
“Life appears to me too short to
be spent in nursing animosity or registering wrongs.”
“Why, then, should we ever sink overwhelmed with distress, when life
is so soon over, and death is so certain an entrance to happiness–
to glory?”
The line that most inspired me - “By dying young, I shall escape great
sufferings.”
I quoted them from Charlotte Bronte’s writing “Jane Eyre”. These was uttered by Helen Burns, one of the story’s characters. You may read it as well - http://www.online-literature.com/brontec/janeeyre/
My comment is kinda long, but hoping it would benefit US all.(including me).
I appreciated this so much. It’s quite simple but very touching! its shows off your identity and being yourself is great remarks of your journry to love. keep it up and God bless!
Always put that trust to our Lord Jesus Christ.
this is for leigh,i know how it is to be brocken,i’ve been there,i let my self destryed by letting my self continue dwell in my anger and hatred,but i realized that until i let go of my anger and hatred that person will continue to hurt me.forgive, for your sake so you can be free.i know it is not easy,but there is a higher authority who can help you do the the things you cannt do.be good 2 yourself its time to let go.god bless you!
nice article… very substancial… i appreciate it a lot… thanks for the thoughts…
God forgive us..and we should also forgive to those people who commit sin. “forgiveness is the hapiness of our heart”
to all of us,who at one point in our lives experience pain missery hatred,we only live once,do not waste our time and lives in too much hatred,and do not decieved yourself that nobody cares,god loves us.
PAIN??????? that is the vey common word for now.Theres a lot of people who realy hurts. But if we realize, pain teaches us how to be strong and how to accept the reality of life. Yes it hard to beliveve bt thats is true. If you feel the pain then feel it. After this, move on then see there is no more hurt.
it will pass.. believe me it would..
‘that life is a continous struggle, but while we are taking that we must enjoy even once in a while!’
yooo…dude..i know how u feel right now because i am also having a big problem in forgetting that ungrateful person.i love her from the bottom of my heart but how could she do that to me?she only wants my money.this is like my my first time falling in love with somebody.but,i will,one day,make her feel very regretful and guilty of what she did to me..my advise to u guys.avoid materialistic people!!!!!!they’re dangerous!!!let’s revenge!!!hahahaha….
defy your memories man, choose just the best ones you’ve got…never mind the pain…but do u know why we keep on getting hurt no matter how we try to avoid it?
a great life is not about routine but doing smething rare.to cherish and not to compare.to forgive,not to blame,and to be loving without counting….laugh at your mistakes but learn frm them.joke over your troubles but gather strength from them. have fun with your difficulties but overcome them. . . . . .
hi ur so cute
u hav a nice pair of eyes
forgivess is a word easy to say but basically hard to do.. take a lot of time. But the truth forgivess is came from heart ….hatred are faded away. And the forgetness must goes next in line to fully feel the peace of mind and heart that wanted for. FORGIVENESS MEANS FORGETNESS…
Don’t worry,however when we 4give sumone it doesnt make them right or justify what they have done.forgiveness is actually the best revenge because it not only sets us free from the person we forgive,but it frees us to move into all god has for us..
To forget is human, to forgive is divine. Forgive those people who hurt u and u will live peacefully and happiliy. Thats what i learned in forgiving those people who hurt me most!!!!!
very nice and i’m enjoy reading ur post as a guides for me.keep it up…..
i have to admit i’m the kind to keep all pain in my heart which leads to grudges, revenge, hate. i try not to be this way but it hurts real bad. even tho years have gone by, the hurt is still there. Sure TIME WILL HEAL…but only if we really give in to wanting to forgive and forget as you say. I tried once by just forgiving and forgetting and at the same time relocating myself. It worked after some time. I had a peaceful mind. I forgave HIM for what he had done. BUT when i came back, the hurt just returned. I don’t know why. We didn’t have a good closure from his side. Turning to God for comfort is a good thing to do. Take time to be alone with God. Speak to him, cry to him…any thing…GOD is listening. I’m not a pious person but i find that it really helps when i confide in HIM and ask for his grace and strength. I’ve been through so much heartache and never seem to learn from it. I’m only human. I’ve had my share of hurting others and being hurt.
that’s all ryt…..guys keep it up…..you can help those loosing hope.
all negative emotion is a kind of suffering… and those are we do not want… so why we’re going to possess it? just junk ot over…hardships are the test of our strenght… so we must prove it… lets not be much affected when something goes wrong……remember that it’s the evil’s trap for us to do errors or mistake….that soon makes us looser…… can we allow that? OF COURSE, NO,NEVER!!!!!
bro,
it’s gonna be alright.
God Bless You.
“(This Is A) Song For The Lonely”
When you’re standing on the edge of nowhere
There’s only one way up
So your heart’s got to go there
Through the darkest night
See the light shine bright
When hero’s fall, in love or war
They live forever
[Chorus:]
This is a song - for the lonely
Can you hear me tonight
For the broken hearted, battle scared I’ll
Be by your side
And this is a song - for the lonely
When your dreams won’t come true
Can you hear this prayer
‘Coz someone’s there for you
We’ll love don’t need a reason
She can pick you up
Or leave you bleeding
I’ve seen a strong man cry
I know the reason why
We all forgive, we all forget
We just keep believing
[Chorus]
So let it find you
Wherever you may go
I’m right beside you
You don’t have to look no more
You don’t have to look no more, oh no
[Chorus]
It’s gonna be alright
It’s gonna be alright
It’s gonna be alright
This is a song
A song for the lonely
And that’s not you only
Through the darkest night
You’re gonna see the light
Love don’t need a reason
Just to leave you bleeding
Can you hear this prayer
Someone’s there
This is a song - for the lonely
Can you hear me tonight
For the broken hearted, battle scared
I’ll be by your side
And this is a song
for the lonely
Learn to live what you have to live day by day and be grateful for not being down forever. Sometimes the big “WHYs” will haunt us..still as long as you choose not to give in and continue whatever it takes , even when you do not know the end of this journey, u r still worthy. Be brave so that we can strenghten others to be brave as well.
dude
Forgive BUt never forget
cause THere are happy N sad times
It’s just that u’r unlucky
dun worry there comes a time
when god brings u together with the person who u truly should be with.. who knows
she may already be near u
but u just dun realise it
-Just a Kid
i don’t know what to say….basta.. i love your article…super touchy…
love not time heals all wounds! ~winks~
hay mybe i know u or m not rily sure hu u r.m not hapi 2 c ur face in my profile.k!bullshit!!!!!!!!!!
God never sends u into a situation alone…GOD go B4 u
he stnd beside U he walksbehind U what ever situation u have rytnow be CONFIDENT!!!!! GOD bless U!!!nakakaiyak nman… thankss
No matter how much we think we have control of our lives, the real surprise is when you see what your life really is reality :)You can deceive others, you can even deceive yourself, but you can never fool Reality… GBU!
Someday u’ll know why He gave you all those aches and pains. God knows what’s best for you dude! Just learn alot from it.
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Nice article you have there!
I just hope everyone learns to forgive and forget people’s mistake just like that. It is isn’t easy to forgive, and its really impossible forget. But there are ways though. I just hope we guys learn that the essence of forgiveness is something important for ourselves too not just to the person who made us miserable.
You can practice, you know!
hello bro ,its nice to live with forgiveness no matter how pain it is , for me what we feel is all temporary and will washed away , just continue life is wonderful.
I think to forgive is not for the offender alone, I guess when we learn to forgive and forget,it’s for our benefit din. If we forgive we start to live again. Walang iniiwasan or someone ruins our day dahil nakita natin yung kinasusuklaman natin… You are simply charging it to the cross anyways lahat naman ay magsusulit sa harap ng Diyos. Diba?
mmmmmmmmm well im very thankful coz GOD”s created me un lng poh….
how nice of ur thoughts… hope i can adopt this to mine. its easy to forgive that to forget, how i wish i could… its hard to forget even ur already give ur forgiveness….. bt u inspired me of ur thoughts.. gud luck…
forget about it .. your not going to keep it in your life forever unless they murder your family ..get on with your life dude
nahh… just a taste of life…mistakes!! forgive and maybe later u cud forget about it..to forgive..its easy.. to forget..mmm unpredictable..very inspiring thoughts though..let me have my share of thoughts.. think constantly that” God is man’s bestfriend “whatever He has done to you,,it is goodly intentional..u cannot expect Him to gamble and betray u do u? just do ur part..then..by God’s grace everything will be alright.. believe me, i’ve been there too many times.. and He never disappoints me….such a nice article hope everyone cud relate on it…gudluck and godbless..
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i think y9uo rite terrificly.i love the way you express yourself so well.it amazes me as you are definitely one of the very few guys who believe in expressing themselves.i cld really relate to your post.your brilliant.you’ve made me realise what i have to do and all.thanks a bunch.
Well, don’t be a prisoner of you past..You can’t change it anymore…Instead of feeling self-pity, move on…You know, this is hard but this is what you can do to succeed: PRAY TO GOD AND TRUST HIM THAT HE HAS ALREADY FORGIVEN YOU!! HE died for you on the cross because he wants you, personally YOU, FORGIVEN!!
i’ve been hurt for so many times but lifes must go on…. when all remember that i just cried out to east the pain here in my heart. that’s what life…. in that way we can be a strong person…
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nk2relate ako sau…
now you’re free… congrats!
the best feeling you can experience in life is being liberated - liberated emotionally from hatred and from people that causes pain to you. Now step forward and smile and you will know that the world is smiling with you…
actually… jesus not god.. but son of god..
eLowZ…
GooD fOr you..
i am alreAdy oN that ProCesss.
FoRgiVing & FoRgeting..
PeRo NaHihiRaPan ako..
kase maHaL ko pa Rin..
Can yoU be my fRienD..???
PLeAse..
nOt sO inTouch with yOur inNer sELf huh??LOL
nwEiz..this iS JUST lifE..
dEAL with it!!
your message really inspires everyone i read all the comments,hmmm..about your message its true its hard to forgive and its much harder to forget but ill give you a tips on how to forget easily first God is involved in here,yes to forget is to put God in your heart what you have to do is get your bible read john 14:6 and think that Gods love all of us and read john 3:16 for you to cope up…and pray for forgiveness and ask God that your givin your heart to him to clean it and believe that he died for our sin,and after you did all of that there is something different of yourself that you are new person now that can easily forgive and forget bec.God can forgive you and all of us even we do bad things to others he still there to help and guide you…so forgive and forget..do the steps it really help..
your message really inspires everyone i read all the comments,hmmm..about your message its true its hard to forgive and its much harder to forget but ill give you a tips on how to forget easily first God is involved in here,yes to forget is to put God in your heart what you have to do is get your bible read john 14:6 and think that Gods love all of us and read john 3:16 for you to cope up…and pray for forgiveness and ask God that your givin your heart to him to clean it and believe that he died for our sin,and after you did all of that there is something different of yourself that you are new person now that can easily forgive and forget bec.God can forgive you and all of us even we do bad things to others he still there to help and guide you…so forgive and forget..do the steps it really help..
learned to forgive is the best way to release our burdens….
learned to forgive is the best way to release our burdens….
I dont know what to say…im touch by your testemonies i cant explain what i feel. I want to comport you even though i dont know who you are.
Cheer up!you dont deserve to be lonely. Maybe it is just a learning experience that you can use someday.
Well i just want you to remember that this life given to us is just too short so dont waste your time. Cheer up make your life happy and meaningful with those people that truely love you.
You know i admir you, i think “MAHAL NA KITA”.
Forgiveness is our strength….
Like Father Lord forgave our sins….
it is much easier to say than have it really done huh!!! sometimes, we became victims of emotions & who is to blame? is it ourselves or those aliens out in the open who keeps on destroying naive homosapiens like me!!! i love to love but it always turns into hatred!!! am i the 1 at fault? most people say that love is wonderful!!! how idealistic isnt it? about forgiving, well, i really tried & sweat a lot in trying to forgive but each try is like a bubble that immediately pops up in the air!!!
i know how to forgive but i dont know how to forget.
tell me whats the diff?
why do we suffer? or should i say why do we need to suffer?
to forgive is easier said than done, to forget is to see and to believe that you’ve already gotten over it with
forgive and forget is easily said than done tru enuf but these are all part of our existence. we do not question, we just have to learn from those mistakes.
HI FRIENDS. TO FORGIVE IS TO FORGET. IM JUST EASY TO PLEASE WITH ANYONE ESPECIALLY TO THOSE PEOPLE WHOM IVE ENCOUNTERED BAD MISTAKE TO ME. ITS EASY, YOU SAY JUST SORRY FOR EVERTHING YOU’VE DONE TO ME THEN WILL FORGIVE U.
your so nice to write like that….. i think that i must know u better….
forgive and forget
I am still in deep pain, I hope and pray that God help me to forgive and forget the person who caused me so much pain and suffering.
me too, until now i suffered pain. i can forgive but i can’t forget. i hate myself why its so hard for me to forget all the pains in my mind and in my heart. but inspite of that, i really love the person so much.
your message, touch me, inspired me!
thanks to you and to all the comments.
one: no one is immune from stupidity
two: everyone has the privilege of being stupid once in a while
three: too much stupidity is something else
four: who says that falling in love is in line with sanity?
Forgiveness is the highest expression of LOVE and forgiveness is at the heart of every human person.
what you say is all thru my fren…my life really complicated with love..i wish i could express everytink out wat i’ve been thru all this years..but i’m afraid to…
It is not often that a man eloquently describe realities and openly admits his hurt.Men usually hide in a facade of machismo…nothing hurts me…im a man…hmmm….your laconic words really did touched me right in the heart. Just remember…..somday, somehow, what you’ve always wished for will come true….it may not be of the exact package, but it will always be what God thinks is best for you…GOOD LUCK for Accepting what life has in stored for you and moving on….
my friend, what happened to u before cannot be change, life is continous,, better leave ur past and and have ur best shot for tomorrow,, we live only once,, live ur life as if this is ur last day so always do ur best,, be good as u are, smile as u can, live and love,, GOD is the only one we can rely on, right? people have problems because God is just challenging us on how we will learn to notice His presence,so it is right to release all ur disappontments coz life offers enjoyment and problems are just mere trials that u need to conquer,, always smile.,, GOD BLESS!
Nice post. A lot of people can actually identify to you but hey, life has still a lot to offer. Have fun and keep goin. The journey is still on. You are not alone.-freeride_kewlguy@yahoo.com
I am impressed! You write very well. You helped me realize today that we all must move on and forgive, because there’s more to life than hating…. Hope to hear from you
Im so touch! I really impressed with ur letter! I also feel it until now. its really hard to forget than to forgive, but lord is the best “friend” to lean on.Just have fun and life must going on!
Im so touch! I really impressed with ur letter! I also feel it until now. its really hard to forget than to forgive, but lord is the best “friend” to lean on.Just have fun and life must going on!
hmmmm…
love always hurts, it’s better to forgive and forget what has happen. it’s takes way too much energy just to keep that fire burning. let it go and have hope that the next person you meet just might be the one. like you said it’s a journey, you’re bound to find some rotten apples along the road. we have all been there….
im so touch..nkrl8 po me s cnulat u..i also fil it until now..hope tym wl cme n i can 4gve n 4get d prson hu causes me so mch pain..gudlak n godbless u..
Hi!!!
Owh,,i don’t know what can i say and i can’t comment’s u…..Forgive and Forget…….. pLiz aDd me as u’r fRiend….
“It is easier to be said than done”…i’ve through with that same agony and it takes a very long long time for me to recover; so many unsolicited advise i got from a friend but the pain always trigger me and i really hate rejections , eventually i learned that too much pain is a burden that need to release so i divert my attention to something more productive and slowly a li’l bit slow i learned to forgive and forget.
I can understand your torment because I have a psychological turmoil within myself - the desire to forgive n forget Vs the pain inflicted by others. Be forgiving to the person who has caused u pain by not forgiving u. The person needs time. It is a v agonising process to hate or to be bitter abt pple. It is not easy for everyone. Time will heal all wounds. I believe tt the person who harbours the bitterness is fighting against the negative feelings herself. It is v agonising to hate oneself for feeling the way one does. Believe tt the person wants to forgive. He/she would b having a gd time, if he/she doesnt want to. So, if u know tt he/she is not having a gd time, it is becoz the process of trying to forgive and forget that is v trying on the person. But the attempt is there. Believe it.
it is so nice..keep up the goodwok!!happy heart..hopefully
i dont know if i have the will to move on but i’m happy to read about your article and it gave me much courage to face the reality though how painful it may seem..forgive and forget is all that matter…right?
Forgiveness cannot be shown, it can be felt. It’s better to forgive someone while he’s still alive. Cos to err is human, but to forgive is Divine….
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Ive been through with your experience. It very to forget the person you love must and betray but always remember that God has reason & purpose y it had happen. So you must accpt & face the consequences.Its not the end of the world. You are not meant for each other. Always pray to God and always trust him.
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i’ve olweiz thought forgivin’ is such a radical thing to do….it takez alot of will and desire to forgive some one..yah. i myself couldn’t forgive that easily..either way i don’t forget easily too!!..i was juz struck..wow!.am amazed wit ur blog..tenkz for da totz..share more insightz..it’ll help alot of soul!!..muahz..be safe!!!
we must enjoy life to the fullest….!!!!!1
Dont walk too fast. wen it comes to love, take it easy, and if u’r looking for the right princess for you, let God works for it. Time pass by, still sun rises to the east not to the west. Dont ask to forget, ask for acceptance, if u do such, pain will no longer be in your vocabulary, but expect that if u surpass the pain u had today, u’l still recieving another bunch of it. Life is such a cycle..
Life is not always a bed of roses..If their’s sadness their’s joy and vise versa.Though sometimes their are things in life that we can’t cope and even accept still we have to or just leave it that way.Just put your ALL TRUST IN GOD and you will never be astray..God Bless Us..:}
im dumbfounded w/ur work…. you really got me. damn! i am so much overwhelemed w/my emotion…cuz i bin tru w/dat exprienz and yet i am still on dat dark phase of my lyf.. no one care to unlock me from such xprienz.. pls add me (sex-tripper@yahoo.com.ph)
in my situation right now, forgiveness is really hard to give to those persons hurt me so much.i can still feel the pain, so much hatred in myself. but i keep on praying that soon i can forgve them and forget those sad memories. maybe forgiveness ….. it takes time…
thanx pal… you gave me strenght…
forgiveness is really hard to give but still have to be given,for it is the right way to start anew….and to free ourselves from those who hurt us and i believe it is the kindest way of revenge… what is important is we always learn from our experiences no matter how good or painful it is and life has to go on….
just sigh, forgive and forget the best, naku muy kurot ka sa akin lagi
Thank you……..you jsut made me realise sumthing
forgive and forget that’s all guys
Being human and ordinary, we will often fail to love the whole, the dark and difficult parts. We will always try to avoid something. We wil tremble.We will blind. We will be uncertain.We will continue to hurt one another and miss the essential .
We will always need mercy and compassion.
Sometimes, NOt everythings happen as you expected ….nomatter how good you trying handle the problem or to protect the person you care most , you hurt them in some way without you even notice about it, but nomatter what happen…in any situation.. we are responsible for what we do nomatter how we feel… and at the end ..we will get hurt too in the process…. the person you love most didnt talk about it doenst mean they didnt care ….
It is hard to determine where to draw the line between being nice and NOT hurting people’s feelings and at the same times standing for what we believe,……
But… no matter what ..I hope you will always understand and realize that “just because someone doens’t love you the way you want them to be , doens’t mean they dont love you with all they have .
we can possibly forgive but we cannot forget….for what has happened is already carved in our hearts and mind. forgiveness though is the best thing for us to do to move on….enjoy life! it’s very short!
i was intrugue by your article…and im not dissapointed on what you have written…i guess everyone and including me really relates to what you’ve been experienced….by forgiving others that absolutely hurt you….and learning to forget it in the long run….at first it is definitely hard thing to do. but that’s the only thing we must do!”forgive and forgets”…because life is still beautiful…just always ask god’s assistance im sure you’ll feel better!!!
godbless!!!